Top Ten Reasons I Can't Wait For Nov. 7

That's right, you heard me.  I can't wait for November 7 to be here.  I'm so sick of this presidential election and all the issues/crap that have come because of it. I'm a bit disturbed by all the animosity in this presidential election.  I feel I've never heard such mean things being said by everyone about people they don't even know.  Let's keep in mind that when the smoke clears and a winner is decided, we're all going to have to be friends, no matter what.  Expressing political opinions is fine, but don't do it at the expense of someone else. I'm planning on voting for Romney because I agree with more of his policies than I do of Obama's. It's not because he's Mormon, it's not because he's white, or because I hate gay people (which I don't, obviously) or because I hate Obama.  I don't hate anyone. (I believe I've mentioned that on here before.) I would like to think that Obama is a kind man who seems devoted to his family just as much as any other ambitious, full-time politician (which includes Romney).

So here they are, the Top Ten Reasons I Can't Wait for November 7

10. I love all odd numbered days.
9. I look forward to being friends again with all my pals on facebook.

8. I'm tired of conservative republicans being compared to terrorist leaders (if you haven't seen this yet, it's quite ridiculous).
7. My 5th graders can't even get through a day without an "Obama sucks" or "Romney is the best." Of course, those impressionable kids are just coughing up the positive things their parents are saying at home.
6. I think November 7th sounds like a good day for a peanut butter smoothie. Just sounds like a great idea.
5. It's a day before I perform for a Hale Theater event at the event center of UVU.
4. Even though it's always a hot topic online, I'll be glad when this wave of "Mormons are the Worst People in the World" has ebbed.
3. People in the faculty room can finally talk about something else. Like Korean dramas.
2. I'm exceedingly tired of celebrities (aka actors and actresses) pretending like they are somehow more qualified than any other person on the planet to tell me how to vote and who's unfair.
1.Elections make me break out.

So good luck, come November 6th. Let the man with the most votes win.

Back from the Dead With Something to Say!

General Conference was such a great experience. Every time I hear the prophet and apostles speak, my heart testifies to me again and again of the truthfulness of their words and the Lord's work here upon the earth.
I was interested in the announcement made about the new age of serving missionaries (18 for boys, if they choose, and 19 for girls). I say interested as opposed to excited because it doesn't really affect me that much. (Though I am excited for Avery, as he is now preparing to put in his papers immediately.)
I figured everyone would be excited about the news.  Imagine my puzzlement when I read an article written by a Mormon mother who felt cheated, and even somewhat resentful. You can read the article for yourself at https://askmormongirl.wordpress.com .  Apparently, and I never knew this, women have felt that marriage was pushed so much over serving a mission, that they got married, didn't serve missions, and now feel like their husband is the spiritual know-it-all of the marriage because they DID serve a mission. They talk about how their lives would have been so much better if they had served a mission at 19 (instead of getting married, I would presume).
Maybe I'm a little confused.  I didn't realize one had to serve a mission in order to witness miracles,  study the scriptures, and become strong gospel learners.  I'm sad that so many women feel cheated because they chose to get married instead of go on a mission.  (If this is you, I suggest you look at the man you love, who you married, and your kids because they might not have been yours if you served). 
This article talked about how marriage has been the only choice for young women in the church.

Whatever. 

I've grown up in this church, spoke at the pulpit, marked up my scriptures, and I didn't just wait around to get married once I turned 18.  I worked on my education. I studied hard in school. I dated, increased my talents, and made myself the best person I could be.  Yeah, I wanted to get married, but that wasn't the only goal I focused on. I had many friends who were set on going on missions, but fell in love before they turned 21. I had never planned on serving a mission, but I served in Pennsylvania.  Not because I couldn't get married, but because the Lord revealed that's what He wanted me to do.  My mission did not turn me into some spiritual zealot or religious giant. It solidified even more the rock-solid testimony I had already cultivated.
Sisters who didn't serve missions because they chose marriage instead shouldn't feel inferior to their mission serving husbands. I met plenty of Elders on my mission who knew less about the gospel at the end of their mission than I did as a Beehive in Young Women's. Serving a mission is not a sure-fire way to spiritual giant-ism. It can be a life changing event, if you let it. But then again, so can building a piece of Zion with a family in a righteous home environment. So can looking into your child's eyes, knowing the Lord has entrusted you with one (or more) of His precious children.

Sisters, don't ask the why's or the what if's. You will only find yourself confusing what might have been with what should have been.  They are not the same. Trust in the Lord, become the best and strongest woman you can be, love your life and be happy with who you have become. And if you're not happy. . .  well my friend, that is your choice. Please don't assume that taking a different road would have been made your life any better. Different, for sure. But not better.